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Am I A LESBIAN?: A GREAT ARTICLE FROM WHEREGIRLSKISSGIRLS.COM
ABOUT BEING LESBIAN: THE WOMAN IDENTIFIED WOMAN
ABOUT ORAL SEX: Blue Sleighty's Oral Sex Guide (with a bit of humor)
ABOUT PACKING: Fairy Butch for Gay.com article about PACKING
I have listed here some really good resources for exploring sex. From the beginner to the experienced, to the adventurous- I think you will find something here that you can use.
Some of the leading sex toy websites have created information resources that are excellent for providing very clear answers for just about any question.
My Secret Obsession's SexToySex Website has very exciting product demonstration videos. If you have ever wondered how it would be to use a strap on, or any of the other great sex toys available- these videos are not only a turn-on, they answer many questions, and prevent disappointing purchases. This sex toy shop ranks up there with the best of them. Secure and discreet!
I wanted to let you know that I am a distributor for the company that made the strap on harness that Jenny used in "that scene" on The L-Word.
Aside from the style that Jenny wore, there are even cooler ones.
I sell them for a lot less than the folks that make them. So- if you want to see them, go to OUTLAW LEATHER and check them out. They are AWESOME. Best looking and functionally the best that I have EVER seen, and they can accommodate two dildos, one for each participant.
The one that Jenny wore on the L-Word is sold for $100.00 at Outlaw Leather. I'm selling it for $78.00. But the coolest looking one is the "SYD". Damn! It is so great looking you won't BELIEVE it. They sell it for $125.00. I'm selling it for $100.00. And the "Missy G" I am selling for $75.00 (they sell it for $98.25).
So- please check it out, and spread the word, girl! You have to write me directly for this.
Love,
Blue
(blue@mysecretobsession.com)
BLUE SLEIGHTY'S STRAP ON COMMENTS:
A NUMBER ONE!- LATEX ALLERGIES! Latex Dildos are potentially very BAD for you! They absorb bacteria, they contain carcinogens (cancer causing chemicals), AND MANY PEOPLE ARE ALLERGIC TO LATEX! An allergic reaction to latex can KILL YOU! It can cause anaphylactic shock, which is potentially life threatening. At the very least, an allergic reaction to latex will cause burning and irritation, or a bladder infection. It can also damage your kidneys and liver. PLEASE BE CAREFUL! Buy silicone sex toys if you have experienced any strange reactions to latex, or if you know that you are allergic. Always use a condom. And, of course, if you are allergic to latex- use a non-latex condom, like the DUREX Avanti, or the Trojan Natural Lamb.
1. The harness that you choose is very important. I find, that for me, the "thong" style just doesn't work. Not enough control. I need a strap around each thigh, in order to keep the dildo snugly against me, and "centralized".
2. Leather is great looking. But, it wears out faster than nylon. Also, nylon is easier to wash. It dries faster, too. And, if you are in a big hurry, you can throw it in the clothes dryer.
3. The o-ring that the dildo fits through is important. It can be too small in circumference to accomodate the dildo that you intend to use. So, when you buy the harness, be sure that it has a big enough o-ring.
4. The length of the dildo is important. If it is too short (less than 7"), it will slip out of the vagina a lot, because it will be too short to control. And, that can be a big turn off, and be very frustrating.
5. What it looks like matters. It depends on the person. Some people are turned on by "foreign object" looking dildos. Some people are turned on by realistic looking dildos. I encourage discussion because that, too, can be a turn on.
6. I encourage you to make sure you know how to put it on, before you plan a night of fun with it. It's sexier that way.
7. Use a good water based lubricant.
8. Keep your sex toys clean, and use condoms with dildos. Dildos are absorbent, and therefore will absorb harmful bacteria.
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Links:
Hersband & Wife GREAT SITE!
WhereGirlsKissGirls.com This is a really nice site. Good information.
A Woman's Touch.com discusses some intimate issues.
Lesbian Lover's Guide This is a great website. And, it's free.
ABOUT.com (they're always helpful)
FEMALE MASTURBATION EXCELLENT!
FAIRY BUTCH! GREAT SITE!
Check out "THE DILDO SONG"
BLUE SLEIGHTY'S STRAP ON STORY (with a bit of humor)